round 1 , wish me luck,

[Zed]

Well it all kicked off this weekend , coral my oldest from my ex wife was in floods of teers as feels her mum doesnt love her and doesnt care about her, she said to my partner angela who has known coral since she was 3 that she is a proper mum ,well i was fuming seeing her this upset so rang my ex up, well she and her smurfy partner are coming over wed evening for a chat,wish me luck as i feel all hell will be set loose    i just have to try and stay calm, sadly not me really but deep breaths i feel will be needed, lets hope he keeps his mouth shut unless its actually use full info, he has been on the scene for just over a year and tends to say too much, angela and me have been together for 8 years and i feel she has the right to be involved in this chat, oh well wish me luck,here we go again,   

paul

[cerbera147]

Best of luck Paul with this miserable situation 

[Zed]

Best of luck Paul with this miserable situation 

 
well mate it can go 2 ways, the right way and coral comes and lives with me, or my ex's way as normal, but TBH im fed up with her getting her own way, do you know i cant wait till coral is older then no more mr nice guy   

[MultiMat]

Best of luck mate. Very tricky situation I hope it is a positive meeting mate.

[Zed]

Best of luck mate. Very tricky situation I hope it is a positive meeting mate.

cheers matt, sadly me and my ex are like a flame and dynamite together, she wouldnt agree with me even if she knew it was right, so i feel the same mate as i only wont a positive meeting, fingers crossed 

[GraysonK]

Good luck, Zed.  That's a miserable situation for everyone involved.  I hope cool heads prevail and you can figure out how to help your daughter. 

[Zed]

Good luck, Zed.  That's a miserable situation for everyone involved.  I hope cool heads prevail and you can figure out how to help your daughter. 

cheers mate, i know the answer but its the way to get her to agree, one thing she never likes doing, of course ill let you guys know how it went,

[Neil]

Hmm, sound like a pile of scary **** to me 

Best of luck.

[Zed]

Hmm, sound like a pile of scary **** to me 

Best of luck.

 
sadly Neil the most scary part is how much power my ex has over my daughter and how little i have,

[Mike, Lord of the Spammers!]

I've had a few of those chat's with my ex too

Best of luck mate, and remember to bite your tongue

[Zed]

I've had a few of those chat's with my ex too

Best of luck mate, and remember to bite your tongue

thanks mike, sadly ive not much tongue left   

[AHB]

Best of luck mate, and keep your hands in your pockets all the time.. 

[ryan1835]

good luck paul, stay calm and id put the leathermans and knives out of view/reach 

[Magic Bus]

Take it easy Paul and just make your decision to not get dragged into a flaming row. You always have a choice. Best of luck mate 

[Benner]

Best of luck mate.

[Chako]

Hope it goes well.

[nuphoria]

We're all thinking of you dude 

[Teofilo]

Good luck, Zed!

[Styerman]

Aw crap , I hope for the best . Try an be cool / polite . Ex's usually respond as well to reason as diseased , rutting Hippos , and are about as dangerous .

Chris

[Mike, Lord of the Spammers!]

Aw crap , I hope for the best . Try an be cool / polite . Ex's usually respond as well to reason as diseased , rutting Hippos , and are about as dangerous .

Chris

Your's too?

[Zed]

Aw crap , I hope for the best . Try an be cool / polite . Ex's usually respond as well to reason as diseased , rutting Hippos , and are about as dangerous .

Chris

Your's too?

  there all the same, well its only her coming and angie and the girls are here so that should keep it calm plus a bonus without her bloke her as to opinionated and since he left his kids up north to live with my ex i dont think he should open his mouth on subjects about kids, ill let you guys know how it went and thanks for the support, 

[Zed]

well scrub my last post as she just rang me and changed it to thurs night as cant make tonight, and better tomorrow as coral comes back to mine now on Thursdays as i sorted that out over the weekend, although she didnt wont coral around while we sorted this originally  but now does, plus she said will be better as ian can come (better for her) angela is going to sort it to be here , oh well         

[Ashley]

Hope for the best and maybe it will prevail.

[Zed]

Well it went better than i thought it would, was very sivalized, and my ex even cried when my partner told her what coral said this weekend and how upset she was, i was surprised to see how human she actually is,so now coral comes back to me after school on mondays, thursday and satays the night and fridays plus the night so good when she stays ever other weekend, i have to say im very happy, fingers crossed she doesnt change her mind  thanks again everyone for the support 

paul

[ryan1835]

good to hear it went well mate 

[AHB]

That's great news Paul.. 

[John]

Glad it all went well Paul  I like good news 

[Mike, Lord of the Spammers!]

Nice one mate

[GraysonK]

That's great news!  Glad to hear it went better than you expected.  And Coral will happier and that's the best part of all!   

[Zed]

cheers guys, coral was still very upset this am as she has really opened up and told us how she feels, she does find this hard as probably lots of 10 year olds would, her older sister from my ex shelly came around as she wanted to see here, she is much happier now she has opened up, now for her to talk to her mum, but thats another story  the sad thing is i went through this with her older sister who is 24 now , she confided in me as had issues with her mum and still does but couldnt talk to her, as i told her this pm its history repeating, well we have the big meeting next wed and the school so fingers crossed that goes ok, im just glad coral is coming back here more now so kind of back to normal for a while