Nah, Aloha, I won't worry about that. I don't serious think those comments are targeting anyone, in worst case scenario, I'd much rather myself getting offended with a bruised ego, which will cause me to rethink my approach/practice more carefully, than continue to live in my own fantasy land of gear playing.
One thing I may beg to differ is--I don't mind peoples' kits looking pristine, so as long people have ample testing/training with what they plan to use with a secondary kit, and know exactly how those items will perform out-of-box new.
As geeky as it may sound, I actually do suggest/encourage people to do more 'back yard' testing/practicing whenever possible, instead of waiting until we are out in the woods. If we can't even do it in the comfort of our backyard with our gears(of course, in a safe and controllable manner), then either we need more practice or the gear may not be appropriate for the task.
Not to discredit the usefulness of any purchased kits, I do feel more solid about my own kit once I have used/tested out all the contents inside my kit, and I think psychologically it may help to reduce stress, if I know how everything works and what most likely will be my priorities under different circumstances.