Quote from: comis on July 18, 2014, 07:43:29 AMHave you guys been living together for the past 9+ months? I do recommend to move in and live together for a while, before considering the proposal if you are not in a hurry. I always feel a good marriage needs patience and acceptance, and there is no better trial than living together.Somewhat, we have been staying together a few nights a week. We have thought about moving in together, but our pastor will not marry us if we are living together.. She really wants to stick by that, which is fine. I still do her yard work and the other "guy stuff" for her... Side note... I actually broke my replaceable wire cutters on my modded wave today fixing her fence...I know we are both young and both do not have alot of money, but we have life goals, have the go get it attitude and have supportive famillys. My goal is to be able to support her, especially because she is a type 1 diabetic and I am afraid working as hard as she is now will kill her. Plus I suppose I personally feel like the guy should be the bread winner and should support the girl.Josh
Have you guys been living together for the past 9+ months? I do recommend to move in and live together for a while, before considering the proposal if you are not in a hurry. I always feel a good marriage needs patience and acceptance, and there is no better trial than living together.