Let me try a different angle. What makes MTO one of the best sites on the net is, self edit. Its not that topics or post dont get heated or people dont get themselves worked up, its that we tend to edit ourselves for the most part. If you or anyone begins to post something that even for a nano second makes you think hmm should I post that? Don't. What makes MTO work is acknowledging its not worth the fuss nor coming off as an arse. Yes there are post that do spark lively conversation and even leaves folks upset. We've had members who admittedly had to take a break. We've had members leave altogether. We've even had a few banned.Its a bummer this happens but theres not going to be a perfect mingling of so many people from all over. We tend to self edit which by and large makes this place run smoother than most places. It also about respect. We are all here to chill, learn, share, have a laugh, show off, camaraderie, hide in the back ground and lurk, participate in the GAWs, and for a whole lot of other reasons. The one thing I am certain of, we are not here to take a piss on each other. To wave our countries flags and tell others how amazing we have it and how smurfty they do. We represent a wide range of, well, everything. We've got Doctors, Lawyers, those not working, blue collar, tech, scientists, laborers, speSmurfpillst, military, students, teachers, LEO, retirees, and pretty much everything in between. Its what makes the place so amazing. There seems to be ZERO ego that I've detected in my years here. If I have learned anything from my time here its, we are more alike than different. Its why this place is what it is. This community, these people, are what makes this place so special. Sure we came for the tools and such but for many its become a home away from home. A neutral zone in this crazy world. So if anyone wants to post anything then by all means go ahead but I urge you to self edit in our little cove. Its not just so we don't get our feather ruffled, its respect. In the end its Grants house and while he doesn't have many rules we respect the ones he does have. More importantly we respect the brotherhood and sisterhood we have chosen to share in. I say again, self edit if for a nano second you think it may offend or stir up unneeded nonsense. I hope you stick around grandpa.