So it looks like I’m single again.

Mike, Lord of the Spammers! · **Reply #30 on:** September 04, 2009, 04:27:20 PM

Quote from: noth on September 04, 2009, 04:16:47 PM

I feel for you mate. I think I'm walking down that road myself right now, after nearly 5 years... Sucks big time and hurts like hell. It'll also take a while to heal, but a man's got to do what a man's got to do and move forward when the time comes.

Sorry to here that mate $:-\$

jzmtl · **Reply #31 on:** September 04, 2009, 07:50:29 PM

Quote from: Medic82 on September 02, 2009, 09:09:58 PM

when I get my 5000$ deposit back from the apartment.

$5000 deposit?! Is this your apartment?

Medic82 · **Reply #32 on:** September 04, 2009, 08:41:50 PM

Quote from: jzmtl on September 04, 2009, 07:50:29 PM

Quote from: Medic82 on September 02, 2009, 09:09:58 PM
when I get my 5000$ deposit back from the apartment.

$5000 deposit?! Is this your apartment?

Hey! it's Oscarsborg fortresse! I have been there, but sadly it's not mine

In Norway it is normal to have a deposit that equals 3 month's rent, but it's ALL MINE........MINE I TELL YOU!!......MINE!!!

AHB · **Reply #33 on:** September 04, 2009, 08:54:26 PM

Quote from: Medic82 on September 04, 2009, 08:41:50 PM

Quote from: jzmtl on September 04, 2009, 07:50:29 PM
Quote from: Medic82 on September 02, 2009, 09:09:58 PM
when I get my 5000$ deposit back from the apartment.

$5000 deposit?! Is this your apartment?

Hey! it's Oscarsborg fortresse! I have been there, but sadly it's not mine

In Norway it is normal to have a deposit that equals 3 month's rent, but it's ALL MINE........MINE I TELL YOU!!......MINE!!!

When I split up with my ex, many years ago, I just said: "Take what you want", so one day I came home to a nearly empty apartment, which echoed when
I walked around...

Nearly all furniture gone, dishes, forks, even the lamp I choose when we moved in..

So be sure to claim what's yours...

But do it in a nice way..

And I sorry to hear about you too, Noth... $:-\$

ducktapehero · **Reply #34 on:** September 04, 2009, 08:56:05 PM

When I split up with my ex-wife she got everything except my cars, my clothes, my dog and my guns. It was expensive but it was worth it.

Medic82 · **Reply #35 on:** September 04, 2009, 09:00:37 PM

Well lucky me just owne things that she don't want and she just have tings that I don't want. But we are parting like friends and are of this moment nursing me back to healt after I broke out with a fewer a couple of hours ago.

Mr. Whippy · **Reply #36 on:** September 04, 2009, 09:02:55 PM

Quote from: Medic82 on September 04, 2009, 09:00:37 PM

Well lucky me just owne things that she don't want and she just have tings that I don't want. But we are parting like friends and are of this moment nursing me back to healt after I broke out with a fewer a couple of hours ago.

H1N1 !!

AHB · **Reply #37 on:** September 04, 2009, 09:04:18 PM

Quote from: Mr. Whippy on September 04, 2009, 09:02:55 PM

Quote from: Medic82 on September 04, 2009, 09:00:37 PM
Well lucky me just owne things that she don't want and she just have tings that I don't want. But we are parting like friends and are of this moment nursing me back to healt after I broke out with a fewer a couple of hours ago.
H1N1 !!

Swine Flu sounds better...

Medic82 · **Reply #38 on:** September 04, 2009, 09:11:30 PM

Quote from: AHB on September 04, 2009, 09:04:18 PM

Quote from: Mr. Whippy on September 04, 2009, 09:02:55 PM
Quote from: Medic82 on September 04, 2009, 09:00:37 PM
Well lucky me just owne things that she don't want and she just have tings that I don't want. But we are parting like friends and are of this moment nursing me back to healt after I broke out with a fewer a couple of hours ago.
H1N1 !!

Swine Flu sounds better...

I don't think so, but going to check with the Doc on Monday.

ducktapehero · **Reply #39 on:** September 04, 2009, 09:30:59 PM

Tell her you have prostate Vasocongestion.

Medic82 · **Reply #40 on:** September 04, 2009, 09:41:31 PM

Quote from: ducktapehero on September 04, 2009, 09:30:59 PM

Tell her you have prostate Vasocongestion.

Most likely HE will just talke to me om the phone and ask me a bunch of stuff, then HE probably will give me sick leave for a week over the phone and send me the papers in the mail. I then give my boss his example and he will send it to the social office and the government will pay my wage when I was home sick from work.

I think my prostate is just fine and doing well, but thanks for the tip anyway..............

ducktapehero · **Reply #41 on:** September 04, 2009, 09:46:09 PM

I wasn't talking about the Dr, I was talking about your ex. Didn't you say she was healing you up? Or am I confused.

Medic82 · **Reply #42 on:** September 04, 2009, 10:22:28 PM

Quote from: ducktapehero on September 04, 2009, 09:46:09 PM

I wasn't talking about the Dr, I was talking about your ex. Didn't you say she was healing you up? Or am I confused.

LOL

ducktapehero · **Reply #43 on:** September 04, 2009, 10:26:46 PM

Just because she's your ex doesn't mean you guys still can't do the horizontal boogie.

Mike, Lord of the Spammers! · **Reply #44 on:** September 04, 2009, 10:28:31 PM

Quote from: ducktapehero on September 04, 2009, 10:26:46 PM

Just because she's your ex doesn't mean you guys still can't do the horizontal boogie.

J-sews · **Reply #45 on:** September 05, 2009, 09:32:17 PM

Saaaaayyy, isn't the Gatebil festival coming up again soon?

Quote from: Medic82 on July 19, 2008, 10:12:46 PM

The last weekend I was working as a medic on really huge festival called Gatebil. It’s a festival that is about a few simple things, drinking, tuned up cars and babes. So I decided too share this pic with you all, its no need too beg for more since I don’t got any more, remember I was there for work not pleasure. I just say too you all, welcome to Norway!!

(Image removed from quote.)

Maybe being single ain't so bad Medic!

WhichDawg · **Reply #46 on:** September 06, 2009, 02:50:54 AM

whoo hoo I remember when he graced us with that shot

go again and get more pix!

Whoey · **Reply #47 on:** September 07, 2009, 04:59:21 PM

Quote from: Medic82 on July 19, 2008, 10:12:46 PM

(Image removed from quote.)

When he had that pic as his avatar, and the "There are FOUR lights" quote below... I couldn't help but say NO, THERE ARE FIVE LIGHTS!

Medic82 · **Reply #48 on:** September 07, 2009, 05:09:48 PM

Quote from: Whoey on September 07, 2009, 04:59:21 PM

Quote from: Medic82 on July 19, 2008, 10:12:46 PM
(Image removed from quote.)

When he had that pic as his avatar, and the "There are FOUR lights" quote below... I couldn't help but say NO, THERE ARE FIVE LIGHTS!

You Cardasian?

Medic82 · **Reply #49 on:** October 10, 2009, 09:48:28 AM

That bitch, that Colorful Enunciation motherColorful Enunciationing bitch. I was sound asleep when the phone rang at 5 am; I knew from the caller ID that it was my ex so I answered the phone. It turned out that she was drunk and crying her heart out, she was supposed to meet someone and they didn’t answer the phone, now she has some mental problems so I want to help and I still considered her a friend so I said jump in a cab and come pick me up and we will drive home to our place and I will pay for the taxi.

When I first started this thread we decided that it would be best if I moved in with my mom so we both could get some room and figure things out, the only problem is that my ex don’t have big enough income to pay the rent and food so I said that don’t worry about that I will pay the rent while you find a new place too live.

So I was picked up by the cab and the fare came to a total of 130$ She was crying the entire trip, it was the intention that I was to sleep there since the busses hadn’t started to go and it was to darn expensive taking a cab back home.

When we where walking to the front door she said that she had sort of cheated on me. I ask her what she meant about "sort of" she said that she had sex with a friend she knew before she meet me, I have the meet the guy one time before, but they had sex when we where “separated” so it was only "sort of"

Now I have had a gut feeling ever since I have moved home to my mom that something where not right. So when we came into the apartment I asked her flat out if they had sex in my bed that I had paid for, and it turned out that they had.

Now this made me really upset and I asked her why? She could not give me a clear answer to that and so I start pumping her for answers. What did I find out? The person she was going to meet was the guy she had sex with but he didn’t show up. I was really finished with talking to her so I locked myself into another room so I could have some time to think, but then I hear she is calling the guy and asked why he didn’t show up and she told him what problems he stirred up tonight. Now I usually don’t eavesdrop on other people conversations but I felt that I had the right to now.

They talked a little about what happened and why he didn’t show up, and then they talked about what they had talked about when they saw each other the last time and it turned out that they had discussed that friends could have sex together and all that BS.

Needles to say that this was the final nail in the coffin and I told her that I will pay the rent for this month but that’s it, we had also planed on that I would help her out with some cash for a deposit for a new apartment and I told her that she could forget about that, and the bed and wardrobe that we had planed she was getting when she moved out is going to be sold to the landlord. She is now cut of any financial aid that I was planning on giving her and she can look long and hard for any sympathy from me.

God I hate that bitch so much right now.

AHB · **Reply #50 on:** October 10, 2009, 10:07:28 AM

Damn Buddy, I sorry to hear that you're going through these problems.. $:-\$
I think you done the right thing, eventhough I would be screaming for vengeance,
and cut her off immediately.

I think it's very generous of you to help her out for this month when she's behaving like that...
No doubt, that you're a bigger person and she doesn't deserves any sympathy at all...
Keep your head up and go meet some of those drop-dead gorgeus norwegian jenter...

Flash · **Reply #51 on:** October 10, 2009, 10:21:55 AM

PM sent bro

Mike, Lord of the Spammers! · **Reply #52 on:** October 10, 2009, 01:01:33 PM

Tough break mate $:-\$

One word of advice, distance!

Get as much as you can from her, at least until you've cooled down, otherwise things get said, and that just makes it a hell of a lot worse $:-\$

Neil · **Reply #53 on:** October 10, 2009, 02:20:35 PM

Change your phone number.

Anthony · **Reply #54 on:** October 10, 2009, 04:29:34 PM

That's some heavy stuff Medic. Distance and changing your number are good ideas, and overall don't let anyone use you.

WhichDawg · **Reply #55 on:** October 10, 2009, 07:16:45 PM

Quote from: Neil on October 10, 2009, 02:20:35 PM

Change your phone number.

this is really a good suggestion because she is going to keep bugging you for support,
and take advantage of you, she already is.

to me it's not the "sorta cheating" that's the problem, but the lying and using you for bailing
her out of her mistakes when your relationship is over.

Good Luck

ducktapehero · **Reply #56 on:** October 11, 2009, 04:58:10 AM

I'd get a real BIG girl to beat the hell out of her, but then again, I'm a vindictive jerk.

Bowman1911 · **Reply #57 on:** October 11, 2009, 05:08:30 AM

I work in mental health. Do as the others have told you, change your number. Next, do this for me, but also for yourself. DON'T PAY ANY RENT!!!! She forfeited the right to any favors from you when she banged the other guy! You've already got it worked out to get your deposit back, move your stuff out of there & forget you ever lived there. She screwed you when she screwed the other guy, now it's your turn. Leave her homeless. I'm not much older than you, but this is one of those times in your life that you'll look back on one day & think, "Man, I should've really stuck it to her!" here's your chance.

zepla · **Reply #58 on:** October 11, 2009, 11:57:18 AM

What a story man! I just read the entire tread and man, that sucks! Good luck medic with that situation. And the advice earlier mention sound like the best plan; get as much distance between you and her! Perhaps I'm old fashioned but cheating is a no go! And in your own bed??

That would piss me off!

Chin up and get the hell out of that situation!

J-sews · **Reply #59 on:** October 11, 2009, 03:36:00 PM

Get away from her Medic, and stay away.

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So it looks like I’m single again.

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