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Another School Suicide!

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Another School Suicide!
on: March 22, 2013, 02:43:05 PM
Only 2miles from my house, and to top it off my older son turns 13 in April! JR

SOUTHGATE, Mich. (WJBK) -

13-year-old Tyler Nichols took his life just before the start of classes Thursday at Davidson Middle School in Southgate.  The school system responded quickly to the tragedy.

"We had an eighth grade student, who committed suicide in our building this morning," said Southgate Community Schools Superintendent Bill Grusecki.

"A student came into the bathroom, found him down on the ground," said Southgate Director of Public Safety Tom Coombs.  "The student notified a staff member."

Grusecki said staff sprang into action, following protocol to a tee.

"We went into immediate lock down, kept the kids in the classrooms safe while the authorities were dealing with the situation," he explained.

Nichols was pronounced dead at the hospital.  School was canceled, and students waited for their parents to pick them up.

"We thought maybe someone was having a heart attack, but it was very scary to know that someone brought a gun into school and shot themselves," said student Austin Robinson.

"We were just really shocked.  A lot of people were crying," said student Ben Patton.

Of course, everybody is wondering what drove this eighth grader to do something so drastic and permanent.  Some have said he was bullied.  The superintendent isn't so sure.

"From what I understand, he's a very good student, somewhat popular," said Grusecki.  "Talking with the staff at the building, he had never gone to anybody with any issues or problems or anything like that."

In the wake of the tragedy, this school is taking a tough look at its security measures.

"We had no idea... that student was coming into the building armed," Grusecki said.

The superintendent is determined to do all he can to change that.

"We'll check kids out when they come in with things on Monday until we can make arrangements with regards to metal detectors or whatever else," Grusecki said.

The school is bringing in grief counselors for as long as they are needed because a tragedy like this is something they will never forget.

"We could see it in their faces.  It was difficult for all of us," said Grusecki.

The gun Nichols used to shoot himself belonged to a family member, but police would not say exactly which family member.  They said it was legally registered and not secured, which is how this young man was able obtain the gun and bring it to school.

Police also said Nichols did leave a note.

Students will be back in class on Monday.  They are being asked not to bring backpacks or wear any bulky coats or jackets because everyone will be checked.

Tuesday's tragedy leaves many students and parents shaken. Beaumont Psychiatrist Dr. Joel Young says teens will have varied reactions. "It's important for parents to extend a listening ear, but don't be surprised if your child doesn't want to follow through," says Beaumont Psychiatrist Dr. Joel Young. "He just might want to move on and think such terrible thoughts."

Read more: http://www.myfoxdetroit.com/story/21755974/southgate-middle-school-on-lockdown-due-to-medical-emergency#ixzz2OH8ZP7rw
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Re: Another School Suicide!
Reply #1 on: March 22, 2013, 03:02:10 PM
Any suicide is tragic,but when it's someone of this age,in this manner...
There is no beginning,or ending,and for this we are thankful,cos now is hard enough to understand!


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Re: Another School Suicide!
Reply #2 on: March 22, 2013, 03:02:43 PM
That's very sad indeed.


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Re: Another School Suicide!
Reply #3 on: March 22, 2013, 03:07:59 PM
That's very sad indeed.


For anyone else posting here, please remember the no politics rule :tu:

There is an awful lot wrong with this story, not the least of which was the tragic death of a child.  If we could table the gun debates and use the money to help with social programs and deal with mental health issues I think we'd solve most of the problems.

Regardless of the method of his suicide, something drove him to it, and I hope they can identify it and hopefully save another kid from the same fate.

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Re: Another School Suicide!
Reply #4 on: March 22, 2013, 05:56:41 PM
That's horrible!¡! Did your son go to this school JR?
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Re: Another School Suicide!
Reply #5 on: March 22, 2013, 06:47:47 PM
That's horrible!¡! Did your son go to this school JR?
No, we're one town over(under 2 miles), yet his school is only 3/4 of a mile from that one, if we were any closer he would have been going to that school! JR
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Re: Another School Suicide!
Reply #6 on: March 22, 2013, 07:38:53 PM
Hearing something like that makes me feel so so sick!  I can't imagine what someone so young like that must have had going on to drive himself to take his own life.

RIP young Tyler Nichols, I hope you find the peace you were looking for.  :cry:


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Re: Another School Suicide!
Reply #7 on: March 23, 2013, 02:43:15 AM
That's very sad indeed.


For anyone else posting here, please remember the no politics rule :tu:

There is an awful lot wrong with this story, not the least of which was the tragic death of a child.  If we could table the gun debates and use the money to help with social programs and deal with mental health issues I think we'd solve most of the problems.

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Word!  I agree completely. 

And, just so everyone knows, I usually ignore threads like this, not because I don't care, but because I don't want to violate the no politics rule of the forum.  As a psychologist, I know a lot about human behavior, and scientific results and facts often run counter to what most people think about a lot of things about why we do what we do.  And, this kind of story is a perfect example of why I keep my big mouth shut about such things.  I'll only say that Grant hits the nail right on the head here.
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