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ca Offline Grant Lamontagne

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What's going on
on: February 21, 2022, 04:31:50 PM
Some of you may have seen my post in the Social Media thread, about things being put on hold for a little while.

I was unable to form the words yesterday, as my mother passed away.

I am now home, with my family, where a person belongs at such times, and my brother and I are doing our best to console my father, whose entire life revolved around her.  In between our own breakdowns that is.

I was lucky to have my mother in my life for almost 50 years, and I know I am still lucky to have my father.  I know many of you haven't been as fortunate, and I have been loathe to post about it and rub it in to those who haven't been as fortunate as I have been and continue to be.

But, you all deserve to know what's going on, and so I am telling you.  I didn't want to derail the Social Media thread, so I'm doing it here.

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Re: What's going on
Reply #1 on: February 21, 2022, 04:36:01 PM
My heart aches for you and your family.  Condolences seem so little to say.  Grant big hugs to you and your family. 
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Reply #2 on: February 21, 2022, 04:41:28 PM
So sorry for your loss.

Hope you all are able to find some comfort in being together, and remembering the good times.


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Reply #3 on: February 21, 2022, 06:21:31 PM
I was fearful it was something like this. I am sorry for your loss Grant. My deepest condolences. As many have posted before, we are here for you if and when you need us.
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Reply #4 on: February 21, 2022, 06:37:55 PM
I am very sorry for your loss Grant.


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Reply #5 on: February 21, 2022, 06:42:20 PM
So sorry for your loss.

Hope you all are able to find some comfort in being together, and remembering the good times.

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Reply #6 on: February 21, 2022, 07:23:22 PM
My deepest sympathy to you and your family.


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Reply #7 on: February 21, 2022, 07:33:26 PM
I'm very sorry. I lost mine 2 years ago. I will only say that she still lives in your genes, your upbringing and your memories, so you are her legacy. Live long to remember her.


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Reply #8 on: February 21, 2022, 07:45:26 PM
I'm sorry about your loss! We are here for you

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Reply #9 on: February 21, 2022, 08:13:45 PM
Glad you were able to get home so quickly to be with your family. You have been in my thoughts and prayers .



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Reply #10 on: February 21, 2022, 08:16:03 PM
I’m so sorry, my deepest condolences for you and your family!
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Reply #11 on: February 21, 2022, 08:34:00 PM
I’m truly sorry for your loss. Give yourself the gift of time to heal. I wouldn’t try to be everything for everyone right now.


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Re: What's going on
Reply #12 on: February 21, 2022, 11:28:12 PM
Thanks everyone.  I do appreciate it.

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Reply #13 on: February 22, 2022, 01:41:22 AM
Condolences, Def. Wishing you and your family all the best.


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Reply #14 on: February 22, 2022, 05:37:16 AM
My condolences.
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Reply #15 on: February 22, 2022, 08:13:21 AM
Sorry for your loss  :(
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Reply #16 on: February 22, 2022, 08:35:04 AM
My condolences Grant.
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Reply #17 on: February 22, 2022, 01:08:59 PM
I am very sorry for your loss Grant  :(
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Reply #18 on: February 22, 2022, 02:43:24 PM
I'm very sorry for your loss Grant.
My condolences to you and your family.

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Reply #19 on: February 22, 2022, 08:22:04 PM
Very sorry for your loss Grant, my condoleances. It is good that you can be at home with the family at a time like this to give, and receive, support. :hatsoff:
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Reply #20 on: February 22, 2022, 08:35:16 PM
Im sorry for your loss Grant. I hope best for you and rest family


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Reply #21 on: February 23, 2022, 10:40:07 AM
My condolences Grant.
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Reply #22 on: February 23, 2022, 11:42:25 AM
My deepest sympathies. Kia kaha.

I lost my father a couple of weeks ago, but he wasn't much of a father so it wasn't much of a loss.


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Re: What's going on
Reply #23 on: February 23, 2022, 12:52:37 PM
My condolences, I hope you are alright


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Re: What's going on
Reply #24 on: February 23, 2022, 04:10:11 PM
Thanks everyone.  We met with the funeral home yesterday and made all the arrangements.  Now it is time to try and sort out all of the accounts, taxes, utilities etc.

Mom was (mostly) a stay at home mom back when that was just called a "mom" although she did work from time to time.  Dad earned most of the family income, but Mom always managed the money, paid the bills etc.  We are very lucky that she was as organized as she was, as we found everything we needed with very little effort.  Even though she isn't here anymore, she is still looking after us.

It's an odd feeling- being home with my family is absolute heaven for me (and how could it not?  Even covered in snow it is beautiful here) but that just makes Mom's absence much more difficult.  I keep expecting her to come around the corner with a smile on her face.

As hard as it is for myself, my brother and his family, it is harder for my father.  My brother and I have lives elsewhere, but my father is going to be here, all alone. 

I'm able to spend about two weeks here, coupling what is left of my vacation and some bereavement leave, so I'm going to be here for a while at least and help with everything I can.

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Reply #25 on: February 23, 2022, 04:53:36 PM
My deepest sympathies. Kia kaha.

I lost my father a couple of weeks ago, but he wasn't much of a father so it wasn't much of a loss.

My condolences to you. 
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Reply #26 on: February 23, 2022, 04:56:31 PM
Still sending you and yours well wishes and our deepest compassion in this challenging time. 
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Reply #27 on: February 23, 2022, 07:52:56 PM
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Reply #28 on: February 24, 2022, 12:08:52 AM

As hard as it is for myself, my brother and his family, it is harder for my father.  My brother and I have lives elsewhere, but my father is going to be here, all alone. 


Both my parents are alive and just celebrated 59 years of married life. I have no idea how either will cope with the loss of the other. My heart goes out to your Dad.


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Reply #29 on: February 24, 2022, 03:34:47 AM
Been praying and still praying for you and your family, Grant :salute:


 

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